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    How to Stay Sane With Work

    how-to-stay-sane-at-workUse this simple method to maintain your sanity with work.




    Over the years I've done work for different sized companies, companies of my own, different roles etc.
    While I love doing work, sometimes I would keep adding stuff to my to-do lists and IT NEVER ENDED.
    So a few years back I came up with some hard rules I must follow so I can maintain a steady amount of work output over the years without facing any sort of burnout.
     

    1.) Make a to-do list the night before.


    I have found making a to-do list BEFORE YOU GO TO BED to be the best way to stay productive during the day.
    By making my to-do lists the night before, it mentally prepares me for what I need to do, and allows me to plan the day ahead of time.
    Here's example of a to-do list you make the night before:


    to-do-list-blank.jpgAlways make this list the night before.


    Before I started making to-do lists the night before, I’d wake up, go over the work I need to do, write out a ton of tasks, then dread doing them, or maybe not even have enough time in the day because I didn’t plan correctly. (Did you know 41% of to-do list items never get finished?)
    Preparing your work the night before is so incredibly important, because you can define what a "successful" day of work is.
    Once you finish those tasks, your day has been "successful!"
    This brings us to the next step....
     

    2.) Once done with that to-do list, no more work allowed.


    I go through my to-do list and scratch off each item until finished.

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    A completely finished to-do list.


    Sometimes I use a piece of paper to cover the entire page, and only scootch it down to the next item when finished with the last.
    You can watch the whole process here (this is a video from 2012 and I still use this method every single day):

    Once this to-do list is completely scratched off, work is officially done for the day.
    I have to get off the computer and go do something else. 

    • Get outside.

    • Go read.

    • Listen to a podcast.

    • Cook.

    • Call friends/family.

    • Do a fun project.

    • Learn a new song.

    • ...whatever.


    I have found it super important to call it quits when you hit the end of your to-do list.
     

    3.) Never add stuff for the to-do list the same day.


    The most important part of this process is:
     

    !!!!NEVER ADD STUFF TO YOUR TO-DO LIST THE SAME DAY!!!!


    I'll repeat this again...


    !!!!NEVER ADD STUFF TO YOUR TO-DO LIST THE SAME DAY!!!!


    I'm going to repeat it once more....


    !!!!NEVER ADD STUFF TO YOUR TO-DO LIST THE SAME DAY!!!!


    One more time just to make sure you understand.....


    !!!!NEVER ADD STUFF TO YOUR TO-DO LIST THE SAME DAY!!!!


     
    If you keep adding stuff to your to-do list, you will start creating a never-ending to-do list, and you will never be "satisfied" with a good days work.
    If someone asks you for something, reply with “Ok I’ve got it on my calendar for tomorrow!”
    Here's several ways you can tell people in a polite way: 

    • "Ok I’ve got it on my calendar for tomorrow!"

    • "I'll get it to you within 48 hours."

    • "Got it, it's on my to-do list for tomorrow."

    • "Awesome, I'll be handling it by 3pm tomorrow."

    • "I'll get it to you in 24-48 hours."


    So when someone asks you for something, assuming it's not 100% urgent, reply with “Ok I’ve got it on my calendar for tomorrow!”
    I viciously guard my time and energy, so if someone wants a task done, I always tell them I have it on the to-do list for tomorrow.
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    Some people are not in a position where they can deflect every task for 24 hours, so for these people they should make it clear which tasks are REQUIRED for the same day, and which are not.
    Many times people will promise something right away, which sets the expectation it will be done right away:

     
    But what if you just try to mention you'll do something tomorrow:

    If the boss absolutely needs this report earlier, they will mention it.
    This exchange wasn't bad at all, and everyone knows the report will be done by 3pm tomorrow. By simply changing the wording of the response, everyone is happy.
    I hope this helps you guard your time and set boundaries on your work much better :)
    Sincerely,
    Neville Medhora
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    P.S. How do YOU stay sane with work? I'd love to hear your tips!


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    Guest Neville Medhora

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    Yeah you need to get off that hampster wheel and feel "done" for the day. I think it helps you stay productive forever rather than going through a burnout cycle.

     

    Possibly book-worthy comment Vickie, complete with egg timer pic!

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    Guest Douglas

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    Really incredible!

    I started following your blog yesterday (I didn't sleep because I thought so much was cool and reading “Seriously I couldn't sleep”).

     

    This tip that you use I will test, this stuff from tools like calendar, Trello etc.

    It's not working for me because I am also a person who likes simplicity.

     

    I'm 16, my goal is to live off copywriting and be the biggest in my country for the next 3 years at least. Your content is helping me a lot in this!

     

    Nice article, keep going!

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    Thank you Neville for these great tips.

     Honesty I have always been  a  'to-do list' person. It always boosts my productivity, I never add to my list because I always look forward to the last task on the list.

     

    I take short breaks in between tasks, especially when my brain starts to shutdown. I stand up, take a walk, listen to music and I am charged again.

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    Guest George

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    I used to have my to-do list on my head and I can tell that was completely a misery. But, since the day I started planning ahead of time (writing my to-do list on paper), I have achieve great success and happiness.

     

    Anyway thanks for your tips it was really helpful.

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    Guest Neville Medhora

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    Ohh great tips Faith!

     

    Taking a walk or playing guitar or piano for me in between work really helps me :)

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